TUESDAY | WHATS YOUR RED FLAG?! (28+) | ALAMEDA

Just a bar, everyone single! And exposing their red flags?! 🚩🚩🚩

Let’s be honest — it sucks finding out someone’s red flags three dates in. So this time, we’re getting real and revealing them up front! Come dressed in red, grab a name tag, and instead of writing your name… you’ll proudly wear your biggest red flag. Maybe it’s “texts back late,” “emotionally attached to my dog,” or “can’t commit — to a Netflix show.”

It’s all in good fun — a hilarious icebreaker and the perfect way to spark some honest (and flirty) conversation. Who knows? You might just find someone whose red flags match yours perfectly. ❤️‍🔥

Small groups/ice breakers begins at 9:15PM! Arrive before this for FULL experience!

About Swell Bar 🍸✨

Swell Bar has that effortlessly social, “everyone ends up talking to everyone” kind of vibe. It’s not a loud, intimidating club—it’s a cozy, neighborhood-style bar where people actually connect, not just stand around with their friends.

The space feels relaxed and welcoming, with couches, a bar you can post up at, and games like darts that naturally spark interaction. It’s the kind of place where conversations flow easily, strangers become friends quickly, and there’s always something happening—whether it’s music, games, or just great energy.

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See you there!

The venue is Wheelchair accessible and there is no cloakroom for attendees

🌟 60 Singles, one venue. 28 years and older. 

Grab your ticket:

Early Bird Ticket 🎟️ Arrive at 8PM

General Admission 🎫 Arrive by 8:30PM

At-The-Door Ticket🚪Only purchase with host approval due to capacity limit of venue! Door price increases at 8:00pm day of the event.

⏰ 8:30 PM arrival = peak mingling hour

​ 🪪 Bring ID or Cupid will turn you away 21+. No refunds

The venue is Wheelchair accessible and there is no cloakroom for attendees

🥰 Many attendees (40%) come by themselves, so even if you’re the only single in your friendship group, don’t hesitate to join us solo. You’ll find yourself in great company.

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